Thursday, October 17, 2013

Motherhood

This week has been such a crazy whirlwind of events I don´t know how I am ever going to fit it all into one email. So I will try and choose the best moments and condense them as always.

First of all, I LOVE the sisters that I live with. The spirit of the house has changed so much for the better. We got along with Hermana Ozuna and Veras and I care for them both but I can´t even begin to describe the difference now. There always seemed to be a division in the past and now it´s the 4 of us as a team. Hermana Veras and Allen also used to argue all the time so it has been nice to have Hermana Aleman with us. She is from Guatemala, an absolute saint and the perfect companion for Herman Allen. It has also been refreshing to live in an obedient house. We all get up on time and do exercise and study and the things that we should be doing. Don´t get me wrong, I love the other sisters that I lived with but I am also very grateful for the change and absolutely love my house now. We all cook and talk and laugh together and have been instant friends so far. 

My little daughter in the mission, Hermana Santana, is amazing. She´s been here a week and already knows where everyone lives (that is a HUGE accomplishment here), their names and situations, and appears to be a missionary of months instead of days. She has such a great spirit and a desire to serve the Lord. She is an incredibly hard worker and we make a great team. We have been lucky to start off as almost instant friends and spend the day talking in Spanglish. I am excited to watch her grow into a seasoned missionary and have no doubt that she will be training in the near future. 

This week was full of such wonderfully spiritual experiences and tender mercies. I have found that when you take the time to really make sure and plan and arrange everything ahead of time you can accomplish so much. It has been refreshing to be the one in charge of the phone and planning because I´m kind of an organization freak. It pays off though because we had members with us in a lesson every single day this week. 

One was with Enrique and his family. Rosa had her baby about 2 weeks ago so we haven´t taught them for a bit, just dropped by to help out when we can. We have been trying to have this one specific family in the ward come with us FOREVER. They finally were able to come with us and it couldn´t have been more perfect. Just like Enrique and Rosa, they were not married when Frank started investigating the gospel and Magdalena wasn´t super interested at first. They were able to share their conversion story and testify of the blessings they have received. They will be going through the temple in December and the spirit was so strong during the lesson.I was ecstatic. This might just be the thing that gets them to really progress.  It makes so much more sense when a married couple invites someone to marriage than 2 young single girls. 

We also had a great lesson with a member last night with a less active. This member understands missionary work. He visited this family because he is their home teacher. He drops by several times a week and came up to us on Sunday to tell us that he had set up an appointment for Tuesday and was wondering if we could accompany him. He had given them a reading assignment and had the lesson prepared. When we showed up last night we taught together as a team and he invited them to church. It makes it so much more natural when a member of the ward or friend invites instead of 2 young girls with tags. 

We were also able to visit Altagracia and Mariella who have been investigators for about 3 months now with a member and her daughter who is a year older then Mariella. They invited Mariella to come play at their house after church this Sunday and said they´d drop by to bring them to an activity. Again...it makes so much more sense with a mother and daughter to fellowship a mother and daughter then 2 young girls without children. Are you catching a pattern here? In conference they said there are 80,000 missionaries. That´s amazing! But there´s 15 million members. It makes so much more sense for 15 million to invite others to share in the Plan of Happiness than 80,000.

Motherhood is going pretty well and I am learning a lot. I personally don´t like to contact. I feel like it is a waste of time. For every 20 houses that you knock, 10 will let you in, 5 will accept a return appointment, 1 might progress and get baptized...but chances are they will inactivate because they don´t have a strong support in the church. That´s just my opinion. So we try and use other ways to find people as much as possible and ask references everywhere we go. Nevertheless, Hermana Santana asked if we could contact on Saturday and I told her that would be fine. We contacted for a about 3 hours, shared 3 messages with a Catholic preacher, Evangelical preacher, and a 92 year old woman and then my cute daughter turned to me and said, "I understand why you say this isn´t effective. Can we get to work now?" I laughed a little bit and we headed to an Jean and Florence´s house.
We had a member come with us to visit them but when we got there they firmly told us to leave and that the weren´t interested. The member walked away a little defeated and remarked that it´s hard to be a missionary. We just laughed and said that it happens so often everyday that you just shrug it off and move to the next appointment. Guys, the Lord knows what He´s doing. We were walking and felt like we should visit Clariluz and her family. We changed direction and when we arrived we were pleasantly surprised to find Gregori there. We have been trying to have a lesson about the temple with them for weeks now but he is never home. We had one of the most spiritual lessons I have had on my mission and talked about eternal marriage with this family. They said they would like to be sealed as a family and we will be working with them to reach this goal. I don´t think I´ve ever wanted to see something more. I have such a love for this cute family and it has been such a privilege to watch them come back to church.

The church is true and the Lord is in control. He knows and loves us. Let your friends and family know that. Help them come to this great knowledge that you all have. I love you all! Think of me sweating when you´re putting on your coats.

Hermana Ewell

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